Why you should not commit suicide?

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Before I start to talk about "Why you should not commit suicide," if you are going through any problem and thinking about committing suicide, give a message on the comment section, and I will convince you not to do in a second over a call. Now, let's start the painful journey.

 

“Dead people receive more flowers than living ones because regret is stronger than gratitude.”- Anna Frank

“No question gets a solution by ending your life unless you solve the mystery.”-Anonymus 

I am stating these two quotes because, in my opinion, most of the suicide and their solution move around this statement. If you want to talk about the stats, then there are lots of proof that people do commit suicide mainly for the following reasons.

1. Going from a mid-life crisis where everything has fallen. (Fame, money)
2. Not able to achieve what you want and unable to full fill the ambition
3. Going from extreme tension and unable to find and question or unable to implement the situation
4. Not in a stable mindset. In the case of kids, a person with mental problem and drug abused people
5. Find suicide as the simple answer to end the problem
6. To hide the guilt

No one can find from what condition that person was going through, but the above-mentioned reasons guestimation by researchers. As per the various studies, we can see that humans are not handling tensions as we were doing in the last century. However, the problems are becoming more sophisticated, and lifestyle is more towards the outward rather than inwards. Previously, people were able to work in a single job for more than four decades were as in this era, most people are searching for instant success in their workspace or trying to get more fame on social media channels. This leads to an increase in pressure in our twenties and mid-thirties.

Yes, we cannot get the exact measuring instrument to find his/her mind thinking. But if you are going through or any person you know is going through this any of the above mentioned six situations, then do the following.

Hey man, I am saying this thing, which could be a more harsh reality for you, but that’s the truth, so don’t get panic because now or else you are going to face this truth.

1. The world is going to move on either with you or without you: Yes. Nothing is going to stop, and society will be the same as before. Continually moving in a forward direction. Your parents will be in depression, your girlfriend/boyfriend will cry for months, perhaps years, and one day they will get married to someone. If they don’t marry someone else, you will be responsible for their lifelong sadness. If you have kids, you are giving the worst future they could possibly face, because you choose to commit suicide. Remember, only your close one will remember you on the death anniversary and occasionally feel bad for you. But see they have a life with an enormous amount of opportunity.
2. Every question has a solution or else you have to let it go: Once there was a scientist who dedicated his entire life to find the answer of only one question: is there a god? But he didn't got a perfect solution, so he let it go and did other business. On his death bed, his daughter came and asked why you discontinued to solve that mystery? Scientists answered in simple words,“if there is any god or creator of the mother-earth, then he will never allow me to find his existence. But if there is no god and we are here due to cosmic activity in the space, then why should I waste my entire life, which is very small to find nothing.” Similarly, if you found some questions which are above your capacity, then let them go. Do something else find your way in a different direction. If you are not useful in politics try farming or try to make panting. There could be one work in which you will be the master, and no one ever could harm you.
3. Forces are going to clash: From primary schools to the national political parties competition is everywhere. To win that competition, people will use any solution and method. You know what, remember, you have so much incentive than other humans who may be in the situation to find the next meal. Our brain is full of complexities, which leads to an enormous amount of questions. We don’t get a perfect solution for every issue but remember to find the answer or get over from the question, it demands time to find a solution. Moreover, some time solution is passing the time. I also went through this situation, and my girlfriend told me “sachin, whenever you feel sadness or extreme depression then remember my face, because, after you, nothing will remain for me”. Hey, if you are going through or go through this suicidal situation, then try to see the faces of your loved ones, and if you don’t have anyone to remember, make new friends because you need to clear your shit from the head.
4. Expectations may lead to frustration: you are reading exactly the right thing. Expectations are the worst thing because you or other people predict you without having the power to see the future(No one have this power), and once the performance goes down, frustration comes into life. Simple rule. So, please live your life in reality. Don’t compare your experience with the prediction, but place your target and make your trajectories and leave room for failure. It can be possible that your family members are making lots of expectations or you are demanding something significant that may not be going to happen. Let’s take a long breathe and follow my way; it’s straightforward and easy. Are you on the losing side? Yes, Step 1, then sit down, forget all the failure, Step2: take a pen paper and write all the opportunities. Step 3, if you have a brilliant opportunity, then go for it; if not, then think to create the opportunity. Step 4: is there no opportunity, then leave it later and go for a new profession, new friends, new people.
5. Remember one rule: you haven’t decided to born on earth, so forget about dying. I give this lesson to all those people who talk to me about suicide and frustration. I always remind them (You never know failure can convert to depression and leads to suicide) that you haven’t decided to born on earth either your parents did. You are here because other sperms cant makes it to catch that egg. It was all randomized, so leave your death randomly. No one has any power on your end unless you are a dangerous criminal. Deciding to commit suicide is against the law of nature.
6. Fear can lead us to a successful life, whereas living into regrets can burn your skin. Once there was an older adult in the big restaurant drinking his coffee. A youngster came up to him and asked, “why are you here every day? Are you the manager?” the old man said, “I am here because I own this hotel and love to visit my property. After all, I fear to become unworthy. Hence, showing up here gives me the purpose to live” From this story, you need immense dedication to achieve something, and you should fear your work in a positive sense. Once you start to worry, you will do it regularly. Therefore, choose wise work and fear to become unworthy and stay persistent and show perseverance

Now you are up to the end. I will give you last advice not to commit suicide: society is shit, it will not going to help when you need them, but it will come to make fun out of it once you let them.

Stay safe

Thanks for reading.